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I had an interesting conversation today with another co worker and I wanted to share it with you ladies. My co worker has been secretly dating her bestie's ex husband/kids father for over a year now. Well recently her bestie caught her red handed with her ex. My co worker was clearly upset not because she was wrong for not telling her bff about what she was doing, no this fool was UPSET because her bestie told her she was wrong and she violated the "THE FRIEND CODE" she asked for my advice and I gave it.
First PERSONALLY if you're my friend you are my friend. I would never doing anything to cross you, hurt you or disrespect you. Real friends don't sleep with each others men PERIOD. Past, Present, or Future!
Dating a friend’s ex takes BALLS! I would never encourage sneaking around behind a friend’s back with their ex boo. Regardless if it was serious or not you're friend will look at it as straight betrayl PERIOD! Remember the saying "what happens in the dark always comes to the light?" TRUST your dirty little secret will come out and you're bestie will be the one thats hurt not because you were sleeping with her ex but because you were her FRIEND she confided in you and trusted you. The whole time she's thinking her bestie has her back when in reality you're somewhere laying on you back getting banged out by her ex boo! That's not cool.. You know that chick Karma yeah she's a b--ch and whatever you do will eventually come back to bite you in the ass. If you love and value you're friendship with your bestie stay away from her exes EVEN if she says its cool decline the offer remember chicks before d--ks!
Now I know it's some trifling friends out there and some of ya'll YOLOING right now. So if you’re going to date a friend’s ex, you have to be able to look your friend in the eye, tell them you’re now the new person in their ex’s life, then be willing to get your ass stomped out for being trifling. If you’re not willing to accept your fate, you probably don’t like your friend’s ex as much as you think you do...
My advice do unto others as you wish others to do unto you...
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I dont think is wrong plus no ones is entitled to judge they have opinions about the situation but aslong as your happy it should be fine
You have to wonder if your best friend is now looking at your mate.. just curious and never say never.
That is a BIG ASS NO`NO..that means you were interested in him from the very beginning. There is a code a girlfriend code. Now your best friend in no longer your best friend. And why do you think they broke up in the first place! If it last good for you! but do not expect a big ole parade from everyone cause what you did and are doing is trifling.
There is no way any chick should F with her friends ex hubby/babydaddy...period!!!!! That is 100% off limits That is more than a girl code that is 'CODE' period even if the two were men...YOU JUST DONT DO NASTY S*** like that PERIOD. Even if your friend tells you to go ahead...like really" How dumb & ignorant does that sound? Just because he tried to get with you please then that means every dude who hollas you have to F with ...yehhh okkkkayyyyy...NOT CUTE...GET YO LIFE how many men are out here for someone to be that desperate to sleep with you ex (your childrens father) If I was you I would tell her straight up) GIRL YOU AINT NO GOOD, "I would say" DONT YOU KNOW ABOUT KARMA BOO>>> The fact that shes not wise enough to say that is violation..means she is no good ...she will do that to anyone "she lacks moral" and everything above.! IF SHE NEEDS ADVICE LET ME KNOW I HAVE NO PROBLEM GIVING HER SOME STRAIGHT TRUTH...I would'nt even mess with my friends ex from childhood she doesnt even need to have kids or be married to him thats just me..you just dont do those type of things when your a lady...Wow...it makes you think about the whole time they hung out when them two were a couple she must have been into him them...RATCHET JUST RATCHET...
That depends >>> How did your Best friend respond when u told her u were starting to see him??
I sincerely believe, that friend wasnt a true friend,She was never a friend in the first place. I think you need to maybe disconnect from her as well. She obviously can't be trusted.And believe me, she wont gain trust in her current relationship also, coz having trusted her, u confided in her, So she might also be using all the info u confided to her,, she might also be using your ex, as she obviously herself isnt a gud human being, and on top of that, she gat no morality, as she herself cant understand another woman's pain, Talking about karma, watever goes around comes around, so watever the person has caused to happen will surely have a reaction sooner or later. and also OMG!!Co-worker...I've been living this situation where my C-worker/ friend is dating my ex hubby.. Thats weird i tell u, forgetting abt the ex, i do nt believe a friend like that ever needs to be respected, by knowing the deeds she did to hurt you, and hypocrisy, it shows the person has no morality.. really! My ex comes to see her along with our child though am there, and doesnt want me to see the kid.. believe me, its really weird!!
I want to meet my ex grilfriend but problem is my wife.
I also like your response! you are superb