Replies to This Discussion

Permalink Reply by Deandra Tucker on June 13, 2012 at 7:34pm

Ebbie I think you like this guy okay I have a few tips for you ,first I don't think that you relpying to his comments are bad at all sex is a topic that people should be comfortable talking about.Let him know that you are open to dating for  now .Second  action speak louder than words and if you don't want to be a (f*** buddy) don't f*** there no other way to say it.Make it clear with your mouth Ebbie  you know the old saying don;t assume because you will make a assout of u and me.  Good Luck

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by Koa Thomas on June 14, 2012 at 10:56am

Just tell him what it is that you are looking for and your expectations.

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by Tangie Edwards on June 14, 2012 at 11:25am

I agree! And if he don't like it,oh well next!!!

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by Monique Steward on June 14, 2012 at 1:28pm

Hi Ebbie, I agree with the ladies, however, since you have no intention on being intimate with him, I'd keep the sexual flirtation to a minimum. Men are very sexual beings and can take our 'innocent' flirting as an agreement to engage. I'd also to advise you to be careful because he is a new guy and you don't really know where his head is. We don't want you to be alone with him and he tries to force himself on you. Or take your flirting and use it as a 'she wanted it' excuse. Be careful mama! And keep us updated!!

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by Tangie Edwards on June 14, 2012 at 1:51pm

*clicks like*

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by Cherrisse Williams on June 14, 2012 at 2:44pm

Ebbie,

Never think that it is to late to turn anything around..you have the right to do whatever you want. Yes we all sometimes respond to sexual callings and there is nothing wrong with it. My suggestion to you is to at least let him know what you expect and don't expect. Explain to him that if he can't except the way you want to live your life then move on. Also you only have known him for a couple of days so really its not anything for you to really worry about.

Plus there are  a lot of good looking guys out there "Keep the Eyes Open"

• ▶ Reply