Has sex with your mate grown boring and routine? Is it always the same old positions, and the same routine foreplay? Are you fighting over who initiates giving or receiving during sex? Do you need something new to get you in the mood or mentally turned on? Then it could be time to try something new and exciting. Turn up the spice if you dare with some naughty role playing called S & M!

Nowadays, couples are looking for new and exciting ways to experience the pleasures of Great Sex to keep the relationship fun and exciting. You keep on doing the same old sexual acts can be boring for some people and they need to have more intensity and exploration in their sex play. Well, let me introduce to you a form of more foreplay and I must say that more couples are engaging in as they explore their sexual boundaries together. Believe it or not, most couples with an open sexual mind and those into role playing may at one time or another engaged in role play called S&M: Sadomasochism.

In fact, many people practice some element of S&M in their sexual lives without even being aware of it.

What is S&M: Sadomasochism you ask?

An intense mental and physical gratification resulting from sexual acts where partners role play either receiving or giving their lover pain or humiliation.

*Sadism: You enjoy giving/dominating.

*Masochism: You enjoy receiving/submission.

There is a great deal of variation of S&M and more people engage in S&M without being aware. For example if you like rough sex, being dominated or dominating you may already have experienced a form of S&M. Most misperceive S&M to be those that wear leather mask, like being chained to a wall and whipped; however did you know it can also be subtle, soft and sensual. As adding silk scarves, feathers & furs to sex play.

Here are a few mild tips and ideas on how to bring S&M to your sex life as you explore your sexual boundaries:

1. Blindfold & Handcuff Blindfolding your lover increases their sexual tension and heightens sexual arousal as he/she anticipates what's next. The loss of one sense 

heightens the other senses. When one your senses are lost all of the other senses become heightened to compensate. This is an intense form of foreplay, because he/she can't see what you're doing, which makes anticipation that much more powerful. Want to make it more intense add in some handcuff and show who is in charge. I would suggest you use a Leather Blindfold that is tight to make it more exciting. Make it even more exciting and erotic by placing an ice cube in your mouth and run your lips and tongue all over your lover's body.

2. Erotic Spanking Spanking

During sex can be exciting to those that enjoy being dominated and those that love to be in control. For some speaking during sex can lead to a great climax. In fact, some women say that getting spanked sends lots of tingly sensations/vibrations to their vaginal and anal areas. Have you seen the movie “The Secretary”? I recommend you watch this movie because this really portrays how S&M works if you want to learn see it acted out. Here’s a little sex toy advice from Lady K, Manbound 12 Impression Paddle – Pig will exude your torture side and will spank your way to your exciting and sexy S&M relationship!

Check out this video to learn more about S&M including myths, truths & stereotypes, how to explore your sexual boundaries and safety tips.

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Are you looking to add to your erotic fun and happy sex life? Lady K is here to help you select the right toy and share the sexual knowledge you need, just go to http://www.queenseductionfantasy.com and choose among the fab and sexy products just for you. Want to learn more about S&M? Do you and your partner want to take your role play to the next level, but not sure how? Do you wanna talk about it and go over a few more healthy details to spice up your relationship? This is the best time to be a part of "Circle of Hearts" a Coaching Program that will tell you the do’s and don’ts and help you reach your goals in the bedroom. Let me teach you the steps and give you some tips as well. Interested to spice up your SEX life? Come on! Let’s talk! Call Lady K for more information: 1-888-519-5906

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