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A few days ago I was strolling down my Facebook Timeline, and I noticed an ongoing argument between a ‘group of friends.’ Naturally curiosity got the best of me so I decided to ‘lurk’; in other words I wanted to be nosey. As I read the comments my first reaction was WTF??!! This woman was actually on Facebook arguing with her friends and family on why she wasn’t leaving her MARRIED boyfriend. The most shocking part was some of her friends were actually encouraging her to stay with this man because she was happy. This made me realize just how desperate some women truly are. Let me break this down for those of you ladies who may or not know:
It is never okay to date someone else’s man. What you think you have isn’t LOVE it’s called Lust and FYI you aren’t in a relationship you’re the chick he’s sleeping with on the side, regardless of how you may or may not feel about the situation.
In my opinion some women have been slapped with the “desperate” stick and have lost sight of their self worth. Instead of knowing your worth, exacting your standards, and not settling for anything less than that, they choose to be desperate. Ladies MEN PREY ON WOMEN LIKE YOU! They know you’re weak, vulnerable, and oh yeah, desperate - meaning you’ll do anything to keep him around.
And to think that some of you are honored to be called the “sideline piece” or the “kept woman” you are truly delusional! All you’re saying is “I’m so desperate I rather have a piece of a man than no man at all.” Let’s be real… there is nothing cute about flaunting another woman’s man around. All that says is I’m a heaux who will open my legs to any man that gives me the slightest bit of attention.
By the way PLEASE spare me with the “once he divorces his wife we are going to be together” line. NO YOU’RE NOT! If and when he decides to leave his wife, trust and believe, he is not going to want to rush back into a relationship after being married. The same way he played her, he will play you make no mistake. I only hope by this point you wake up and realize how crazy and foolish you look.
Ladies, all I’m saying is a married man will do and say anything to keep you in his life, pocket, and bed! I don’t care how bad things might be at home for him (which probably is a damn lie) don’t fall for him or his lies! If he respected and loved you enough he wouldn’t ask you to sneak around, and you certainly wouldn’t be his side piece. Please know your worth ladies or you will always be undervalued. Any man who cheats with you will eventually cheat on you.
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